The Caregiver’s Tales
Tiny essays on life, nature, grief and other things that catch my fancy in the Texas Hill Country. Here’s how it all got started.
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On A Birthday
It’s my birthday. Seventy-five. Three quarters of a century. I’ve seen a lot of history. Don Larsen threw a perfect game. Mays robbed Wertz. The Marines escaped Chosin.
Another Day
I never expected to be well into July and hoping for a dry day. But I am. I walked out to feed the cats this morning, and there it was, drizzle.
What We Did
There is probably of law of physics that speaks to the acceleration of a six year old boy as it relates to his physical proximity to the adult male charged with looking out for him.
A Break from Routine
This is nice. Children are in the house. Pallets are on the floor. Sleepers are all around.
Thinking of You
Yesterday evening, as my day was winding down, I thought briefly about calling a friend. But I realized the hour was late and the call could wait.
The Problem
I am suffering the torture of Sisyphus. My boulder is a love of technology combined with just enough brain power to get it to work.
Freedom’s Forge
No fireworks to speak of yesterday. Mostly I did the one thing I love to do. Read a book. Almost all day. A sort of fitting book for the Fourth, Freedom’s Forge by Arthur Herman. It’s the story of how American business mobilized to help win World War II. Great story.
The Holiday
Yesterday we got rain in the morning, rain in the afternoon, and a sauna in between. For a brief moment it felt like the Gulf Coast.
The Burden
Went with friends to visit my wife’s grave yesterday. We hung a little decorative pendant by the headstone. It was made by her Ya-Ya’s at their last gathering.
Attainable Goal
I spent most of the morning yesterday, in the battle with Khaki weed, on my knees, digging. I think we’re at the end game.
Uninvited Guests
It’s an odd ritual, but before the lady comes to help clean my house, I clean my house.
Course Correction
I make mistakes. Lots of them. Some worse than others. I made a mistake when I planted the Morning Glory and the Texas Red Honeysuckle too close together on the back fence by the Eve’s Necklace and Mountain Laurel.
Falling Blossoms
When a good wind blows, the air around the house is full of crape myrtle blossoms, little bits, blown from the big trees.
Play a Song for Me
Last year, today marked the 50th anniversary of my wedding. This year it’s just another day.