The Caregiver’s Tales

Tiny essays on life, nature, grief and other things that catch my fancy in the Texas Hill Country. Here’s how it all got started.

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Still Alive

It’s going to rain all day and never get out of the 60s. Sounds perfect, especially if you’re someone who still remembers summer, and I do. I’m all in for this sort of weather. For lack of a better term, things feel soft. Plus, all the plants are still green. Maybe they think it could be spring again, although it’s more likely the genetic code knows better.

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Small Thoughts

It’s a fine chill morning in the Hill Country. The cool air feels good and if I were camping, I’d be drinking coffee around a fire. But I’m not camping, I’m just standing on my porch feeling good, drinking coffee from an insulated mug, while two cats nibble on their breakfast treats.

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The Guests

I know I fancy myself a gardener. But no one, seeing the wild growth beneath my big oaks, would take that seriously. Sure, I like to plant things, but after that they’re on their own. Take my scarlet sage. I dug up one plant fifteen years ago. Brought it home. Planted it. Babied it. And helped it thrive. Now. Its descendants are everywhere in the garden, and I have no say as to where. They just go where the wind blows.

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Final Show

My garden must think it’s Spring. Everything is flowering. Naturally, the Fall plants are abloom, the Asters and the Gulf Muhly. But even the spring and summer plants are getting in on the action. The one that most excites me is our antique rose, Marie Pavia. I cut out the Turks Caps just for her, with more sunlight as the goal. And I reconditioned the soil at her feet. She grew a ton of fresh leaves in response, and now buds have sprouted. Soon there will be flowers. That’s a nice thank you.

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Danger

There’s more fog this morning which means there’s a heavy dew. So, it’s wet to walk in the grass. Out in the pasture as the sunlight first hit the field I thought I was seeing a patch of rain lilies mixed in with the dry grass and field flowers, but they turned out to be spiderwebs, spun in the tall grass, collecting water out of the air, and making themselves known to their intended victims.

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Foggy

The air is heavy with fog this morning. There are no lights to see in the distance and the only sounds I hear, except for passing cars, are the sounds of the fog that is gathering on the tin roof sliding down into the gutters. It sounds like rain. My roof. The cloud catcher. It reminds me of stories I’ve heard about people in Chile and Peru doing the same in the Andes, spreading large nets to capture the sea fog to drink and grow crops.

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When the Cold Comes

We got rain yesterday. It was gentle. The ground had time to take a long slow drink. More is expected today. It was cool and damp outside, so I decided to have a fire in my newly refurbished fireplace. It was a small one, mostly comprised of dead pecan limbs gathered from a neighbor’s yard during a cleanup. The smoke rose straight and true right up the flue. It was gratifying.

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Promises

It’s a still morning with a promise of rain. An emergency vehicle just went down the road. Sirens wailing. Most likely EMS. But I didn’t look. The grounds and gardens are prepared for rain. New plants are in and mulch laid down. I even aerated the front yard, mostly for the trees and plants. I don’t think much about grass. My suburban dad days are long gone. I want things that flower and give me color.

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Spider Thoughts

Well, the garden spider on the east eave of the southern porch is done. She died sometime in the night on Sunday. I figured the cooling weather would do her in. She left four egg sacs, however, and each one of them might have between 300 to 1,000 eggs. That’s a lot of little spiderlings to carry on the family business, but we have lots of little mosquitoes so I’ll take all the help I can get. She lived a short, but productive life. About a year.

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Tiny Things

At distance the Barbados Cherry is unremarkable. A green shrub beneath green trees. Up close it’s another story. There’s a show. It’s covered in buds, less than 3/16th of an inch, and flowers that are about 5/8th of an inch. The flower has five petals, a single pedal at the top, one pedal on either side, reaching out like arms, and two pedals at the bottom that are close together and have the appearance of legs. There are yellow stamens in the center where the little cherry soon will be.

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Moonlight

There is one weird window in my house. It’s in my bedroom, on the west wall at the south corner of the room. I have no idea why it’s there, because the house was built and laid out to avoid sun exposure. It’s a chink in our armor. I’m writing about it today, however, because I sleep facing that window and last night during my 2 a.m. wake-up, I thought someone was shining a light into my room. But it was only the moon shining through the weird window and the Venetian blind that covers it.

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A Two Plant Tale

Freed from the shadow of the Turks Caps, the Marie Pavia rose has leafed out in all it’s glory. It still gets a dab of morning sun, but now the afternoon sun streams down the drive and across the porch to touch the rose in ways it’s not been touched in a while. And to help it take advantage, I also amended the soil at its feet with a conditioner. I can’t believe I was so inattentive to its dilemma.

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Using the Cold

The coming of fall and winter brings me a personal pleasure I never would have imagined as a younger man. It comes after that moment in the night when I can longer sleep and the tossing and turning drives me from beneath the covers. I go onto the porch, jacketless. I embrace the cold air. The cold air embraces me. I stare into the night. Sometimes there’s a breeze. Mostly not. Usually, it’s just the cold and me.

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Weather

Another weather report. The morning low is in the 40s. That’s it, except to note that it feels good to walk outside on a cool morning. I wonder, however, if this is how it felt when the Little Ice age started in the 14th century. One morning everyone got up, and it was cool outside and it stayed cool for six centuries. And no one much noticed. It was just the weather.

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New Plant Time

Well, the garden of the front porch is rid of the Turks Caps. They had a nice run, but I’m ready for new plantings. First, however, I need to amend the soil. It’s got too much clay, according to my arborist son, and needs a little something to break it up. We planted some red clover yesterday and that will help in the long run, but it needs something like rice hulls to make it a bit more friable so that oxygen can get to the roots.

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A Surprise

They say a watched pot never boils, and sometimes I think a watched plant never blooms. Several years back I moved the schoolhouse flowers to three different beds around the yard. There were lots of bulbs, way more than enough to go around. But none of them seemed to thrive. Until this year.

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Blooms

The second Turk’s Cap is well and fully dug up, and the path for sunlight for the rose is mostly open. Only one to go. In my search for new companion plants, I came upon old familiars, lavender, salvia, and catmint. Suits me. All have been in the beds before, and now it looks as though they shall return. The front porch garden will have a new look this spring.

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New Plant Time

I dug up one of the Turk’s Caps yesterday. The Marie Pavia rose in the front porch flowerbed is down one competitor. It was easier than anticipated. Sixteen years of rotting oak leaves has given me nice, loamy soil. I’d like to think the next ones will come up with equal ease, but I’ve discovered the way of the world sometimes lures you in with something easy before banging you over the head with the hard thing.

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Finding Pleasure

Yesterday, I asked. Is it Fall? The answer this morning is yes. It’s 62, and I need to think about shelter for the cats. We’re down to two, and one of them is new. A tom. He’s getting used to the routine. He waits at the door for breakfast, shows up for dinner, and hangs on the porch during the day. I’ll bring down crates and bedding this afternoon and set them up on the south porch. No need for the heat lamps, but a warm spot to cuddle is good. 62 is probably chilly, even for a cat.

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Is It Fall

Thank you, Polo. Your tropical moisture was most welcome. I logged close to four inches at my house. Best of all it came down at a relatively steady pace over several days. So, there were no flash floods to speak of. The Llano River puffed up but the flood control lakes controlled the flood, and the water made its way to the sea without incident. The rain made a local music festival a muddy mess, but that was the extent of the generated news.

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